exercise

Low Testosterone

The individual experienced insomnia during the pandemic and sought medical help. Misdiagnosed with depression, they later discovered low testosterone. After starting treatment, improvements in sleep and exercise were noted. The symptoms of low testosterone matched their experience, prompting a recommendation for others to consider testing and consult with a doctor due to potential complications.

marriage, sex

I Met A Guy

The author shares their experience of chatting on social media platforms like Sniffies and Grindr, initially connecting with a man who lives an hour north. They later met at a mall, but the man’s engagement deteriorated after a short meeting. The author now feels the pain of not being able to meet in person, as they have cameras on their house and struggle to leave without suspicion. They feel forced to engage in hookups and randoms, which are more dangerous. The author is unsure if they are doing it wrong or if they have better prospects.

marriage, sex

Temptation

The author expresses dissatisfaction with the frequency of sexual intimacy in their marriage, feeling neglected and undervalued. Their spouse regularly claiming tiredness as a reason for the lack of intimacy has led to feelings of rejection, despite the possibility of asexuality being the cause. The author, tempted to seek connections elsewhere, is considering potential fallout, including infidelity stigma for bisexual males. Alongside marriage issues, the author is dealing with work-related stress and sleep problems, raising concerns about the impact on their mental health and the perceived state of their marriage.

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