Author name: BiOtterDad

marriage, sex

Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM)

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The individual discussed seeking support for living with an asexual spouse, considering celibacy, divorce, charity sex, hoping for change, or ethical non-monogamy. They described their spouse’s consent for non-monogamy but expressed concerns about complications and STIs. The discussion concluded positively, aiming to move towards a fulfilling intimate life.

marriage, sex, Uncategorized

I’m Bisexual: Coming Out

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A person bravely came out as bisexual to their wife, who took it in stride due to her exposure to diverse sexualities. The decision was fueled by the need for honesty and to relieve personal burden. The spouse’s nonchalant acceptance signaled a maintained bond, and no major changes were expected. The individual found closure after a year-long journey.

marriage, sex

Therapy – It Does A Body Good

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The author had their first virtual therapy session, addressing concerns about their spouse’s low libido, open marriage possibilities, and their own emotional journey. They struggled with communication and relationship issues but made progress after a tense conversation, making agreements and improving intimacy. However, setbacks occurred due to illness and old habits, leaving uncertainty about the future.

testosterone

Low T – Update 1

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The writer recently had their first blood check after starting testosterone injections, revealing high hematocrit levels, a common side effect. After donating blood and halting injections, their hematocrit levels normalized to 47.3. Their plan now is to donate blood every two months to maintain healthy levels. Additionally, they plan to increase their testosterone dose to reach optimal levels.

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